Stressed

Why stress can be so scary?

If you experienced the similar incident as below, you also will ask the same question.
This incident happened on 19th March 2008.
My colleague, who was doing accounts, suddenly disappeared for a few hours. I was busying with the documentation for shipment sailing on 'good Friday' so didn't notice about her weird behaviour until her sister came to our office to look for her sister. Her sister looked like very worried, kept asking me and my colleagues where is her sister.
"Something is wrong." I guessed.
I took the toilet's key and quickly go to toilet with her sister. Nothing was found after we shouted for around two minutes.
Her sister said my colleague is been stressed until cannot eat and sleep. My goodness, what's happening with my colleague! I was very regret for not having a good talk with my colleague on the day before. She was very quite that day, I should discover on the same day. How stupid me!!~!
Back to 19th March. My colleague came back office at around five o'clock, sitting at her desk and staring at her unfinished job. I can't really remember what her sister and the other colleague of mine talked with her. I just remember they kept persuade her to go home but she did not answer them at all. The same sentences flying in the sky of the office for more than an hour, the quiet one remained.
I took a glance at the clock in front of me, it was 6:30pm. The same sentences still flying.
"I've reached the limit, I can't sit and listen anymore, I must take some actions." - I mumbling.
My colleague was dragged out to the office, by me, no doubt. She went back with no other choices given.
This is the first time she behaves like that, her eyes glazed over, expressionless.
For the one who is reading this post, can you tell me what we can do for her?

FOR YOU, I don't think you still got mood to online, but if you are watching this post, please finish the message below as well.

我不知道会计这个行业给了你多么大的压力，足以让你变成那个样子。
我只能告诉你，不论压力多大，一定会有办法解。
每个人解压的方法都不同。我们不能为了那一点(还是你认为的那么大点)压力，就投降，就让它操控你的思想， 把你搞得不成人型。不要继续钻牛角尖，前面还有一大段路等着你走。好好休息，让自己冷静下来。所有人都很担心你，我想你不会不知道。你忍心让他们为了你难过，掉眼泪？
等哪一天你想找我谈谈时，打个电话给我。

How fast are you?

Found this wonderful thing in my friend's blog.
I tried the test for up to five times already, the highest score is here.
My goodness, now I know that my typing speed is soooo.... slow.

Do you wanna know your typing speed too? Just click and try.

61 words

Speedtest

请给自己一个大大的掌声~Give yourself a big big clap

对我来说， 没有什么比拥有一群好朋友来得开心了。嘻
To me, there's nothing can be so happy to have a group of best friends. Hehe..
以上的这一群 就拥有十年或以上的友谊
As the group as above, we already have more than ten years friendship
虽然我们大多数一年只见个一两面
although we only can meet for one or twice a year
但每当大家聚在一起的时候 总是那么的亲切
but when we gather together, always will feeling close, comfortable
一点都不会觉得陌生
not stranger at all
也许所有人的心中 已经悄悄地住着彼此
maybe, we already have each other in deep inside of our heart
相信十年不见 只要一个聚会 就又能牵引出大家心中的友谊
I do believe that if we're not meeting for ten years,
we only need a simple gathering to find our friendship back

如果这张照片中找不到你
If you can't find yourself in the picture
不用怀疑 你也已经在我心里
don't wondering, you're also staying in my heart
我不会把你忘记
I won't forget you
请记得 所有我所认识的朋友
to all the friends I know
你们永远都是我的朋友
you're always my friend
如果有哪一天 我不再联络你
If there's a day, when I don't contact you
这不代表你不再是我朋友
this does not means that you're not longer my friend
因为在某年某月的某一天
this is because, when there's a day
你一定会在你手机里找到我
you'll find me in your handphone, for sure
条件是 请别随便更换手机号码
the only condition is, please don't change your phone number

>10 years friends' CNY gathering 2008

My CNY gathering with my dearest friends.


My girlfriends. All very pretty, I can guarantee. :P


This is my friend and her baby. Blissful...



We were cooking "gui ling gao" for the gathering. The guy over there, see, this is the prove.

What Chinese will do during CNY?
Normally, what will you do during CNY? There's some example down there:-


1st, gambling.


2nd, gambling.



3rd, gambling again

Nothing we can do during CNY?

No, we still can go to drink tea at mamak stall. Hehe..

1st archive for year of 2008

06.02.2008, lunar new year eve

blueLavender is coming back today.

This blog was alone for a few months already.
Yesterday, when I was lying on my bed in Singapore, this blog suddenly popped up into my mind. Suddenly, thousand kinds of feeling jumping in my heart. I thought I will not have this kind of feelings anymore since I working in Singapore.
The life in Singapore is very stressed. One of my friend said that Singapore is just like a big University. Everyday's job is no different with the life we had in University. Studying, eating, sleeping are all we had in University and now working, eating, sleeping are what I have in Singapore.

The 1st impression of Singapore to me is.. the speed of escalator is super fast! You'll agree with me if you've been to Singapore.

Singapore is a low crime country, you'll feel safe even though you're walking alone in the middle of the night. Nice...

Six months passed, another new year is coming. Do I still need to write what I had done or what I had not done for last year? If I'm still 18 year old, I think I'll write, but now, I prefer not. Don't ask me why, I also dunno.

天天好心情

天天保持好心情 能吗？

没有人希望自己不开心
心情低落时是非常难受的

你曾试过因为某人的心情不好而觉得难受吗？

蓝色薰衣草的单纯/笨

我不是故意的
我只是想让你更开心 让你更快乐

一直以来
我都以为我有能力逗你开心
我绞尽脑汁
挖掘出我自以为很赞 很了不起的“台词” 来讨好你
却不知道 其实 那些我所谓很赞 很了不起 的“笨”思想
已经造成你的困扰 (@_@)

道歉 有用吗？
如果从一个时常把“对不起”挂在嘴边的人说出的道歉
你能接受吗？

沉默 会是一个解决问题最好的方法吗？
如果一直保持沉默
问题会解决吗？

我承认我并不是什么大名鼎鼎的伟人
但是 但是 我并不想成为别人眼中的负担
我只想用我自己的方式活着
不会给身边的人带来麻烦的活着
。。。。。。

至少我是这么想的